By Mubarak Dahir
The intersection of religion and homosexuality is almost
always a difficult crossroad.
Gay and lesbin Muslims have certainly felt more
than their fair share of the strain of religious intolerance
both as homosexuals viewed with disdain by most Muslims, and
as Muslims who, now more than ever, often feel outcast by
other gays and lesbians.
Despite the difficulties, gay and lesbian Muslims deserve
to hold onto both their faith and their love. And soon, a gay
imam, as Muslim religious leaders are known, plans to emerge
to help bridge both sides of the chasm surrounding gay and
lesbian Muslims.
"It's time for a new perspective on wht it means to be
Muslim and homosexual," says the man I'll call Mohammed, a
48-year-old African American lawyer with a football-player's
build.
Though many of the teachers and fellow students at the
Northern Virginia university where Mohammed is currently
studying for his Masters in Islamic Sciences know he is gay,
he asked that his real name not be used at this time. With
just one course left to take until he completes his studies at
the end of the summer, Mohammed doubts that coming out now
would jeopardize his graduation or his induction as an imam.
But he doesn't want to take any chances. The stakes are just
too high.
Besides, there will be plenty of chances to take on
homophobia as an openly gay imam, he chuckles during a phone
interview from his home in Washington, D.C. He's well aware
that his coming out as a gay imam; something he plans to do
immediately upon graduation, he says "will be a lightning rod
of controversy."
"But there has to be room for a more open interpretation of
Islam than the one handed to us by religious scholars who
lived more than more than 1200 years ago," he says. "And that
interpretation has to come from those of us who are both
Muslim and gay."
He is optimistic that he will be met with greater
acceptance than might be expected. He's come out to the Muslim
community before, with surprising support. While he was an
undergraduate at Georgetown University in the late 1980's,
some members of the Muslim Student Association, to which he
belonged, proposed protesting a gay and lesbian event on
campus. "I spoke up against the proposal, and used the
opportunity to come out as a gay Muslim and discuss what it
meant." The Muslim Student Association voted against holding
an anti-gay protest, and, says Mohammed, "I earned the respect
of the group: including that of the group's imam."
Mohammed believes the more progressive attitude of Islam
toward gays and lesbians must originate in the West, where
individuality and freedom of speech are protected. In many
predominantly Muslim countries, he concedes, being openly gay
can be dangerous. However, he also believes strongly that
"Islam itself is no more or less homophobic than any other
religion. It's all in the interpretation."
To bolster this view, he points out that Islam adopted its
primary admonition against homosexuality from the Bible: the
story of Lot in Sodom and Gomorrah. The difference between,
say, some of the more liberal attitudes on homosexuality by a
number of Christian ministers compared to the predominantly
conservative attitude among Muslim clerics isn't in the
details of the story itself, but in the contemporary
interpretation of it.
Much of what is commonly referred to as "Islamic teachings"
against homosexuality are not religion-based, but
culture-based, he says, and most places where Islam is the
dominant religion remain traditional cultures. As a man who
will be an imam, Mohammed feels a particular responsibility to
speak up as a gay Muslim. As an out Muslim leader, hopes not
only to push the Muslim establishment toward a more tolerant
view of gays, but also to show gay and lesbian Muslims that
they can be true both to their faith and to themselves.
"Gay Muslims need to see this happening, so they are aware
of the possibilities" of their religion, he says.
Mohammed, who was raised a Christian and converted to Islam
as a 34-year-old adult in 1988, knows well the personal
struggle many experience in being gay and Muslim. Before his
conversion, as a student of many different religions, he, too,
wrestled with the apparent contradiction of being gay and
being a good Muslim.
"Then I realized that Islam is so much more than the narrow
interpretation against homosexuality" that has been assigned
to it, he says. Despite the widely â€"held anti-gay sentiment,
he chose Islam because "its form of prayer and its teachings
on daily life struck a more personal chord for me" than did
the teachings of other religions.
While studying Islam, he says he came to the realization
that "the Koran teaches a lot of things about relationships
that apply to whether we are heterosexual or homosexual. I
found I could extrapolate the rules of the Koran to be
inclusive, rather than exclusive."
Mohammed hopes, too, his being out as a gay imam will ease
some of the "misconceptions and stereotypes about Muslims" in
the gay and lesbian community. Mohammed, who has a beard and
typically dresses in traditional Muslim garb, says he
sometimes feels as much at odds with the gay community about
being Muslim as he does with the Muslim community about being
gay, particularly since the terrorist attacks of September 11.
"I've heard a lot of misplaced hatred against Muslims from
the gay community," he says sadly. Not long ago, he overheard
a conversation at a local gay coffee house that "basically had
the theme, ~Why we should imprison Muslims in
America.TM"
In addition, he has been profiled by an airline while
boarding a flight to Amsterdam, and was even accosted on the
street by a man who screamed "Osama bin Laden!" while lunging
at him. (Mohammed used his size and his umbrella to ward off
the attack.)
Asked which would be the greater challenge, coming out to
Muslims or combating anti-Muslim stereotypes among gays,
Mohammed responded with the typical hearty laugh that
punctuated much of our conversation. With patience and
determination, "both should be possible," he said in his
strong and characteristically optimistic voice. "God willing."
Author's Note: When Mohammed does come out at the end of
the summer, he has promised to grant me another interview.
Look here for the follow-up to his amazing story of strength
and courage.
For more information and resources for LGBTI Muslims visit the: Temenos LGBTI Muslim Page